I was on a short trip to a friend's wedding last weekend. I borrowed a friend's laptop to check on emails, while he is away for another drinking session after the dinner. Something prompts me and i accidentally saw some pics that are not suppose to be seen. To me, the pics are okay and not devastating. But to the fact that it related to a trust that we put together. A series of questions prompt to my heads - shoudl I tell him i saw these pics and apologies for my invasion of his privacy? Those pics are enough to create some 'imagination' about his integrity and his behavior. To be clear, the pics are just about some friends hang out in a bar and pics taken with some nice and pretty waitresses there. No doubt it is just another guys nite out sort of pics.
It related to me an issue of trust. Because of breach of trust, I was led into pitfall of imagination that really demoted the impression i had with this guy. I don't know why, just don't feel good about it. At some point, i felt upset and disappointed. In another way, i am reluctant to believe that is true because he is really Mr Nice Guy in my life. However, being woman at this age, i must admit that we are all adult and can deal with this maturedly. To some extend, I didnot take any actions because it was our friends wedding and there would be some "aftermath" activities going on the next day. So i only mentioned that after we returned.
To him, it is just a misunderstanding of behavioral interpretation. To me, it is something hidden that refused to reveal. Hard to prove my imagination to be true and has a stand, I leave it as is. However, I know how hard it is to build a person's trust and integrity, especially someone we cared the most. I am a person that does not believe sentences that start with "I SWEAR...." it is also biblical "It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfil it." (Ecclesiates 5:5) Trust is to be put on action,and need to be gained and not taken for granted.
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